Is there any song that describes the often-contradictory feelings about relationships better than this one? I’m not a Joni Mitchell super fan by any stretch of the imagination, but I did fall a little in love with her after reading Girls Like Us (if you haven’t read it, what are you doing reading this blog? Go find a copy and read it right now!). This song is pretty perfect, and if there’s a woman who doesn’t relate at least a little bit to it, then frankly I don’t understand her.