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My Best Friend’s Wedding

I still have at least one more Bridesmaiding post to do (I’m not even to the actual wedding yet! I still need to teach you all the things I didn’t know until after the fact!), but in the meantime, here’s the video of Catherine and Isaac’s wedding. Our friend Chad is a top notch videographer, filmmaker, photographer and more! I suppose you could call him a Chad of all trades. Anyway, he filmed Cat’s wedding and made this lovely highlight video. The song is “The Luckiest” by Ben Folds and it was their first dance.

I cried a lot that day. It was a really emotional experience for everyone; I’ve never seen so many people cry at a wedding (to be fair, before this I’d only ever been to 4 weddings). I even started to tear up just now, watching the video, and this was probably the fourth time I’ve watched it. It was a lovely, personal wedding that I’m glad I got to be a part of. Please note my cameo appearance as “Girl Waving a Streamer Like a Crazy Muppet” when the bride and groom are leaving the church.

New Year’s Jams

We all know Christmas songs, but an overlooked genre of music is the New Year’s song. Here are some of my favorites!

New Year’s Day, U2

I can’t listen to this first few seconds of this song without laughing, because Alex sings it a lot. This is one of those songs that probably shouldn’t make me happy, and yet it does.

Same Old Lang Syne, Dan Fogelberg

Okay, you probably hate this song because you are not my mom’s age. Whatever. My best friend and I totally bonded over this song when we first met. Why were 14 year olds listening to Dan Fogelberg? I can’t answer that. Either way, I find this song emotionally affecting, so just shut your trap.

The New Year, Death Cab for Cutie

New Year’s often ends up being disappointing or depressing for a lot of us, and this song really sums up that feeling. It makes me think of high school, when I used to stay up until 2 or 3 in the morning on Saturday so I could watch Subterranean on MTV and watch videos like this one (while the internet technically existed then, it didn’t exist for me).

In The New Year, The Walkmen

Because we all like The Walkmen.

What Are You Doing New Year’s Eve, Zooey Deschanel and Joseph Gordon-Levitt

I was going to post the Nancy Wilson version, but give me a break. This is what the world’s talking about, and by the world I mostly mean every blog and also me and Christine and Chad last night.

Are there any other great New Year’s jams I forgot? Is U2′s New Year’s Day the best song in the world? Let me know in the comments!

Favorite Columbus Places: Northstar Cafe

While I don’t actually live in Columbus (yet!), I spend a lot of time there. Columbus has my friends, my boyfriend, and my favorite fabric/craft stores, coffeeshops, theatres, bakeries, and restaurants. Oh, did you notice most of those involve food? Well. Sorry.

One of my favorite Columbus places is The Northstar Cafe. While I’ve only been there a handful of times, each experience has been an absolute delight. I’ve tried such delicious foods as their famous black bean burger, a yummy korma bowl with brown rice, veggies and tofu on my birthday, and an avocado/corn/tofu/tomato/goat cheese concoction that was honestly the best salad I’ve ever had in my life. The only problem is that I can’t find anyone who wants to eat at Northstar with me.

At this point, I can only convince H. to go with me as a favor (see: the birthday korma trip). Even though he’s loved everything he’s eaten there, most notably a divine pulled pork sandwich, he complains profusely about the atmosphere. What he sees as pretentious, I see as conscientious and soothing. There’s a focus on organic, local food, the decor is very spare, the walls are light wood and there’s a large magazine rack filled with such titles as Yoga Journal, Whole Living, and Backpacker Magazine. You either like that sort of thing or you don’t. I do. Some boyfriends dismiss such things as “hippie bullshit.”

Then there’s the issue of the price. I had lunch with my BFF this weekend and I suggested Northstar because, well, how many opportunities do I get to eat there? No sooner had we grabbed menus than Cat said, “How do soup and a salad cost $11?” Cat, like all my favorite people, does not sugarcoat anything, including her disapproval of soup prices.

We did have a lovely lunch, filled with copious amounts of catching up and iced black currant tea. I had the Big Burrito which, despite its frat-boy-food sounding name, was one of the most delicious things I’ve eaten in awhile. It combined all of my favorite foods: fried eggs, black beans, sauteed peppers and onions, and sweet potatoes. Why don’t we put sweet potatoes on everything? Let’s make it happen.

The takeaway is that if you don’t like high prices or yuppies, this may not be the place for you. While I don’t like either of those things, I do like feeling fancy. When I have a bad day, I will often go to Starbucks just because I know the lite-jazz will calm me and the baristas, I think, are trained to compliment customers. I also shop at Whole Foods about once every three months so I can pretend I’m rich. “$3.29/lb for apples? Don’t mind if I do!” I say to myself. So basically I see Northstar as an investment in my mental health. It makes me feel less frazzled.

Also they played Billy Joel and Elton John when Cat and I were there.

Pictures from this breakfast blog. Apparently the author is publishing a book about Columbus breakfasts, which is a book I will almost certainly buy.